(Notistarz).- Child development specialists warn that confronting bullying requires more than simple advice: children must learn to set boundaries firmly and respectfully.
“When someone mocks, insults, or pushes a child, the first step is for the child to get serious, recognize the situation, and act with clarity,” explained child psychologist Laura Méndez.
However, Méndez noted that not all children are ready to respond immediately.
“If a child has experienced violence at home, their self-esteem is usually low, which generates fear even in situations they could handle. Asking them to react before they are prepared only worsens their insecurity,” she said.
Specialists recommend teaching children to defend themselves verbally. “Defending oneself does not mean fighting, but rather expressing limits with firmness: ‘Respect me. Don’t talk to me like that. Don’t bully me. If this continues, I will tell the teacher, and if it is not resolved, I will talk to my parents,’” Méndez detailed.
Experts also emphasize that parents should not encourage physical violence. “The goal is for the child to learn to defend themselves using communication strategies and seeking support when necessary. We must wait until the child is ready and accompany them throughout the process,” she added.
In cases where bullying escalates, the psychologist recommends direct adult intervention.
“It is necessary to go to the school, speak with teachers, and request meetings with the bully’s parents. At the same time, the child must be taught skills to protect themselves and express boundaries. School violence is a reality and must be addressed comprehensively,” Méndez concluded.